After two years, we decided it was time to share our story… This is Us… No really, I have never watched the show. Life has a way of weaving in more drama than we need. Getting it from a tv show is not for me. Grab a cup of java and let’s go down memory lane… #hottoddy and I have been together for 31 years. We have 4 kiddos, three of whom are married, 3 grands, and 3 bonus grands. I heard a phrase recently and it was something that hit me to my core so I applied it to our life

One of the best things from 2020 is one of my go-to songs, Rattle by Elevation Worship. It speaks life to my bones… IT IS what the song talks about. Yet for the last week or so my mind sings it as Battle… I wished one of my talents was to write songs but alas… it’s not. Someone, please write me a battle song that moves me as much as Rattle and This is a Move by Tasha Cobbs. I love music. I love to sing. I love to dance. Trust me, you don’t want to hear me sing or

On the darkest days, when I feel inadequate and unworthy, I remember whose daughter I am, and I straighten my crown

This year took a deep ocean dive to the Mariana Trench of misery and grief. A bit too dramatic? Maybe. But the truth is, when I look at all

Perception is a real problem in marriages. The other night a friend shared something that her parents shared with her before she got married